"I kinda let the guy do everything he wants to me," is Melissa Carey's point of view. "I'm not really assertive. I never make the first move. If I agree to go out with you, it means I'm already attracted to you. It's up to you if we wind up in bed at your place. I wouldn't date you if I wasn't going to let you fuck me." That's what we call an honest, no-games girl.