So Ira's no Merilyn Sakova. Who is? The pretty Ukrainian babe has her own slinky charms. "I am wishing to get married," says Ira. "But I am very specific. I want a gentle man, not a brute. I do not want the macho man. He must have a good career and have clean personal habits. I do not wait. I have looked for a year but all the men I meet are not wanting a wife, just a sex girlfriend." Keep the faith, Ira. Your dream man will show.