SCORE: You're a voyeur too, no?
CASEY: To a certain degree, yes. I can't say I've ever really just sat around and watched people having sex, but I understand the turn-on. It's something I wouldn't mind doing.
SCORE: Well, let me ask you the question this way: When you're having sex, do you like to keep your eyes open? Are you a watcher?
CASEY: Yes! My favorite position is probably boring to most people, but I like it when the guy is on top with my legs wrapped around him. Lots of kissing, hugging, touching and eye contact. Talking. Talk to me, baby!
SCORE: And keeping your eyes open.
CASEY: I want their eyes open, too. It's incredibly intimate. If you can't keep your eyes open and watch the other person, there's an intimacy issue.
SCORE: What's so erotic about it?
CASEY: It's soul bearing. You can't hide anything. You're watching them and they're watching you. People are afraid of intimacy, but I have to have it. To be with me, you have to be comfortable with intimacy.